Thursday, 6 December 2007

友情 - Friendship

一个不是我们有所求的朋友,才是真正的朋友。」但是彻底想来,要做到这点,是何其难!友情产生的本质便是因为孤独,我们常常陷入虚幻的友情旋涡,好在还有时间——它可是一面最清醒的镜子。 时间会很自然而然地告诉你谁是你真正的朋友——可是答案总是太残酷。也只有这个时候你会看到人们丑陋的一面。 当我们得宠掌权时,有谁不是对我们恭恭敬敬,满口的好话,一旦退下职务,那些人竟然可以把我们当透明人。。唉。。再次证明人类是很现实的。。他们真的是悲哀的一群!

The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words and not scheming on one another.
There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. Doubt is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills.
Sometime we get closer doing things together to make the event a successful one, but that is also the time when we faced misunderstanding and miscommunication. It’s a test for everyone, there bounds to be someone who is making use of us to get rid of people they dislike, if we are not careful, or not having a clear mind, then we are actually stepping into his trap.
Think before we do anything!
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."

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