友情 - Friendship

忽然非常想要写关于友情，最近太多事情发生了，所以特别有感触。
人们常说，人类最纯净的友情只存在於孩提时代，说这话的人都有些无奈和痛心。因为他们说，随著岁月流转，友情越来越依附于事功，越来越仰赖实用和交换原则。这似乎很对。可惜的是，前提本身却错了。
我们在一生的不同阶段会有不同的朋友，岁月在替你做著筛选和替补。也许其中有一些是真实的朋友，而有一些或许是你的某种错觉，仅仅是错觉而已，这与欺骗和利用无关。
友情如果仅仅出於一时的需要，那也只能是短命的友情。或者说，它还不具备友情的真正意义。这样的朋友亦只是一种错觉。
「一个不是我们有所求的朋友，才是真正的朋友。」但是彻底想来，要做到这点，是何其难！友情产生的本质便是因为孤独，我们常常陷入虚幻的友情旋涡，好在还有时间——它可是一面最清醒的镜子。 时间会很自然而然地告诉你谁是你真正的朋友——可是答案总是太残酷。也只有这个时候你会看到人们丑陋的一面。 当我们得宠掌权时,有谁不是对我们恭恭敬敬,满口的好话,一旦退下职务,那些人竟然可以把我们当透明人。。唉。。再次证明人类是很现实的。。他们真的是悲哀的一群!


The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words and not scheming on one another.
There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. Doubt is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills.
Sometime we get closer doing things together to make the event a successful one, but that is also the time when we faced misunderstanding and miscommunication. It’s a test for everyone, there bounds to be someone who is making use of us to get rid of people they dislike, if we are not careful, or not having a clear mind, then we are actually stepping into his trap.
Think before we do anything!
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."