True Friends

There are four kinds of stout-hearted people who should be known as true friends: the helper, the friend in both good times and bad, one who gives good counsel, and one who sympathizes. The helper is a true friend for four reasons. He guards you when you are off your guard; he guards your property when you are off your guard; he comforts you when you are afraid; and when something has to be done, he gives you twice what you require. The friend in both good times and bad is a true friend for four reasons. He tells you his secrets; he keeps the secrets you tell him; in trouble he does not forsake you; he would even lay down his life for you. The friend who gives good counsel is a true friend for four reasons. He discourages you from doing wrong, he encourages you to do good, he tells you things you have not heard, and he points out the way to heaven. The friend who sympathizes is a true friend for four reasons. He is sad at your misfortunes, he rejoices at your good fortune, he restrains others from speaking ill of you, and he commends those who speak well of you.

A friend who always lends a hand,

A friend in both sorrow and joy,

A friend who offers good counsel,

And a friend who sympathizes too -

These are the four kinds of true friends,

And one who is wise, having understood this,

Will always cherish and serve such friends,

Just as a mother tends her only child.

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